Ever play with a deck of cards when you were younger; go fish, old maid, crazy eights? Or even in recent years; blackjack, poker, spades? Can you figure out the one thing all these games have in common?
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They all involve choice.
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Face it: choices have surrounded you your entire life. What card should I keep? Which cards should I release? Which toy do I want to play with? What should I build with my blocks? What clothes should I buy? Which shoes go better with this outfit? What do I want to eat today?
Accept it: choices and decision making will forever be a part of your life. Where you live; who you marry, if you even get married; what career positions you apply for.
Realize it: you are currently in the midst of one of the most important choices of your life…which college you will be attending in the coming years.
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Choosing the college with the best fit is a crucial decision, and it definitely takes time. Not everyone is fortunate enough to fall in love with a school off initial research. It takes communication with the school (the students too, if possible), curiosity, and initiative to truly figure out which school you believe you will be most happy at and satisfied with to spend the next four-ish years of your life.
The best way to determine if a school is the “right fit”, in my opinion, would be to visit a couple of your top schools and compare. Experiencing the campus – the energy, the activity, the interaction between professors and students, the atmosphere – will guarantee you the most genuine opinion of the college. You will not only have other people’s accounts of the college, but you will be able to establish your own opinion. However, I understand, sometimes visiting a college campus is not always possible due to distance, finances and/or classes.
If college visits aren’t necessarily in the cards for you, I would suggest completely fueling your curiosity. Talk to as many people as possible from the universities and colleges (admissions, as well as students); ask any question you have – no matter how outrageous it may seem. You want to be sure you have all the knowledge you can obtain before you make a decision, that way, you can make a fully educated and supported decision.
It’s that time of year again, when high school seniors are in the process of trying to make their choice. That’s the reasoning behind my above suggestions.
And since I have just gone on and on about the college choosing process, I should explain how I made my decision to attend Norwich University… The summer before my senior year kicked off, I was fully in college search mode; at that point, I was so sure I wanted to major in Architecture that I didn’t even consider a college if I wasn’t given the option. That’s how I came across Norwich. Flipping through a magazine that I had recently received on Private Colleges and Universities, I looked at every college’s list of offered programs; if Architecture was not on the list, I turned the page. The pattern continued until I turned the back cover. In the entire magazine, there were only two schools, Norwich and some school I’ve forgotten about now. Reading the article, I was instantly attracted to Norwich and the variety it offered; thus began my journey into the research of Norwich. After visiting the campus for a second time, I had fallen in love with what the school had to offer me, but especially the atmosphere. It was something unlike any other campus. At that point, I had made my decision: if I were accepted, Norwich was the school for me. A couple weeks later, I got the news, I was accepted. And so, preparation for Norwich began.
I hope the advice helps you out in some way. Any questions, feel free to ask; I would be glad to help.
“Don't be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson